Temple House is right in center of Patan, just steps away from Durbar Square, but it's quiet, cozy, and friendly. The staff were helpful in answering questions about the area and tour options, and the modern rooms have a historic design that I loved. Patan itself is a great alternative to Thamel that is less crowded and touristy, but still has some great restaurant options, but is close enough to Kathmandu to visit the essential sites.